Grade 1 · Unit 1 · 我的家人和朋友

你好吗?
Nǐ hǎo ma? — Greetings Again

Kindergarten’s greetings come back, but this time they go both ways. Students learn to ask as well as answer — and meet 吗, the little word that turns any Chinese statement into a question.

⏳ 3 lessons · ~25 min each 💬 Speaking focus ✎ 0 new characters

Unit objectives

By the end of this unit, students will be able to:

  • Ask 你好吗? and answer 我很好
  • Use 吗 to turn a statement into a yes/no question
  • Greet someone correctly for the time of day
  • Hold a four-line conversation with a partner, unprompted

Key vocabulary

Nine items — mostly familiar sounds doing new work.

你好吗nǐ hǎo ma · how are you 很好hěn hǎo · very good 不错búcuò · not bad 不好bù hǎo · not good 你呢nǐ ne · and you? 早上好zǎoshang hǎo · good morning 下午好xiàwǔ hǎo · good afternoon 晚上好wǎnshang hǎo · good evening 谢谢你xièxie nǐ · thank you

The easiest question word in any language

To ask a yes/no question in Chinese, say the statement and add 吗 to the end. Nothing moves, nothing changes:

你好。 — You are well.

你好吗? — Are you well?

Before Unit 2 · read this first

What a Chinese character actually is

Next unit your student writes their first ten characters. Five minutes here will change how the whole year feels — because a child who knows what a character is is reasoning, and a child who doesn’t is copying shapes.

  • A character is not a letter. Letters spell sounds. Each character is one syllable and a meaning, all at once.
  • A character is not usually a picture, either. A famous few are — 山 really is a mountain. Most are not.
  • Almost every character is built from reusable parts. Learn the parts and new characters get easier, not harder.

Two parts, one new character — a pattern your student will meet again and again:

女 woman + 子 child = 好 hǎo · good

There is one question worth asking every single time a new character appears, and you do not need to read Chinese to ask it: “What are its parts?”

How Chinese characters work →
In this unit

Three lessons, a real conversation

👋
Lesson 1 · ~25 min

Morning, afternoon, evening

Three time-of-day greetings, sorted into a clock-face activity so students pick the right one.

❓
Lesson 2 · ~25 min

Adding 吗

Turning statements into questions, then answering three ways — good, not bad, not good.

👥
Lesson 3 · ~25 min

Your turn: 你呢?

Partner practice bouncing the question back and forth — the first conversation students run without the teacher.

Cultural connection

Answering honestly is fine

English speakers answer “How are you?” with “Fine, thanks” whether or not it’s true — it’s a greeting, not a question. Mandarin’s 你好吗? is a bit more literal, and among friends people do sometimes answer it truthfully. Teaching 不好 alongside 很好 gives children permission to mean what they say, which is a surprisingly good hook for keeping them interested.

Unit 1 progress check

A light, no-pressure way to see what’s sticking:

  • Can your child ask 你好吗? as well as answer it?
  • Do they pick the right greeting for the time of day?
  • Can they bounce a question back with 你呢??

Asking is harder than answering and matters more — a student who can ask can keep a conversation alive.